A week or so ago, a few small factors combined into something amazing.
The whole is definitely greater than the sum of its parts.
It’s been like discovering the combination of chocolate and peanut butter.
Unless you’re allergic.
Anyway.
Off and on for years, I have been doing puzzles at sporcle.com. (I like the logic puzzles the best!) The Climbing Daddy has started puzzling there in recent weeks and has become invested in the badges he can earn.
The Kid has been doing puzzles with him and became equally invested in the badges.
At the same time, we were training for a virtual 5k. The Kid is not a huge fan of running but wanted to get the medal—do you see a pattern?—and was quite whiny when running.
While we were out running one evening, I told him that if he kept running, he would earn a badge. He didn’t believe the badges would be real; I told him I’d make them.
Now. I’m not super-artistic. I enjoy making and drawing and creating, and I do a solidly OK job. (And I’m good with that, as I don’t want to put in the time and work to be better … and because I’ve gotten a lot better at embracing “good enough”—but that’s all for another time.)
But I also knew I didn’t want to be making and cutting out and keeping track of a bunch of little badges. Or worse, big badges. (Have I mentioned that this child keeps everything? What’s that? Yours does, too?)
So I decided just to draw them all on a piece of card stock (paper would have sufficed). He chose the shape. I guided that decision, because there are not many shapes that I can somewhat consistently draw. Or that I was willing to draw repetitively.
He asked: could there be a picture in each? Sure.
You can see my high-quality drawings. But you know what? He loves them. And “I refuse to do it because I feel like I suck at it” is not something I want from him, so I’m not going to model it.
I covered the page mainly because I didn’t want to have to draw more later. That turned out to be great, because now he’s excited to fill them.
I had planned on just doing exercise badges, but The Climbing Daddy had an idea for a not-exercise badge (the one for sanding*—he did good work learning to use the sander when they made a table a few weeks ago), so two sections: one “exercise” and one “other.”
*The two-sided tape is beyond my level of “good enough.” The Climbing Daddy had cut it out and not glued it down yet, and The Kid was thrilled to have the great idea to use a piece of double-sided tape. Deep breath. Not my badges.
In addition to the badges we started with (and the couple that we figured at that point would get added soon) we keep adding more.
He loves them.
And it turns out, I can throw out nearly anything “for a badge” and it’s worked so far.
The other day, for example, he chopped up chard for dinner as his “kitchen skills” activity for the day. The meal that was going into—chard with chickpeas over rice—is one that we’ve eaten often. He’s helped prep and cook it many times. Everything else was already prepped (rice and chickpeas made, red onion diced). I was reasonably sure that with minimal help, he would be able to make it.
So I told him it was his job to make dinner, we would help a little if he needed, and he would get a badge for it.
And he did. He was nervous—what if it’s not good?—but he didn’t fight it.
He loved getting another badge. Maybe not as much as he was proud of preparing a meal.
7-mile bike ride? Check. Running in the morning? Check.
I’m sure there’s a limit somewhere, but we haven’t found it yet.
Also, I’m not offering badges for normal day-to-day things, which probably helps them to maintain their awesomeness and makes them different than your typical sticker chart.
“Mom? What happens when I fill all my badges?”
I’ll get another piece of paper and make more? It’ll be the expansion pack.
He’s so tickled now at the idea of an expansion pack.
I have no idea how long this will last (or for how long I will be able to think of new but still attainable feats), but for now, it’s been fantastic!
